I just stumbled on a blog that horrified me. All right – not actually horrified. But bothered me. I won’t say why or what is was, because everyone has the right to his or her own opinion.
The internet makes it easy to find information, and it connects many different people. And people are different – they have different values, beliefs, moral codes, ideas, political leanings, and even have different views on reality – after all, reality is in the eye of the beholder.
So who am I to leave a comment on a blog saying ‘You’re wrong’, or ‘You’re full of crap’?
Of course, that doesn’t stop me from going to the CIF column at the Guardian and commenting on articles there. Why? Because there is a difference between a blog and a newspaper. A blog is like someone’s house. Yes, they’re all out there for everyone to see. But most blogs are the reflections of their creators, and to go in, read it, and comment upon it is akin to going into someone’s house. Polite manners dictate that we respect others. We respect them especially in their own environments, which is what we create when we make a blog. We recreate our own environment. Some blogs thrive on contreversy, while others are reflections of an artist’s work, a poet’s thoughts, a mother’s pride, or just a sort of diary for the prolific writer. Whereas a newspaper is information tossed out by journalists, and the CIF is a column where anyone can write in and state their opinions as strongly as they like. (Very therapeutic, believe me, lol.)
But I stumbled on a blog that bothered me, and someone else had obviously been bothered as well, and the comment had started a ‘flamewar’ (actually I love that expression) and it probably ended with hurt feelings on both sides. So I felt sorry for both sides, and came back here and rambled a bit. Because, honestly, there is nothing wrong with expression your opinions on your blog, but there will always be someone ‘out there’ who feels it’s his/her civic/moral duty to tell you how you should run your life, and what you should think, feel, or believe in.
I won’t do that. (Except with my kids, lol.)